Binge-watch a show and get a bunch of ice cream. How do I deal with unrequited love? - maiiiworld via BuzzFeedĪA: Oooh that’s hard. Why do men get intimidated by women? And what can a woman who has been described as “intimidating” do to be considered less so without compromising who she is? - jkjones via BuzzFeedĪA: I guess some guys are probably just scared of getting hurt, or scared that someone is going to be mean to them.
I feel like people are really busy, and to put in the time and go on what you think is a date and then find out it’s a hangout? It’s so frustrating. How do I know if it's a date or just hanging out? -Sofia Tana via FacebookĪA: Oh! This was something that frustrated both men and women to no end - this idea of, well, what’s happening here? Are we hanging out or going on a date? That was another thing a lot of the women we talked to were really frustrated by, when a guy says, "Hey, let’s hang out sometime!" Well, what the fuck does that mean? Are we hanging out and boning? Or hanging out and running errands? I don’t know! I think it’s something that’s very frustrating, and I think it’s so annoying. Those are the things that really seem to get a good response.Ģ. The factors that made a perfect text from a guy were: asking someone to do a specific thing at a specific time, this was the main thing another thing was having a little bit of sense of humor involved and the third thing was having some callback to a previous interaction or conversation, to make the person feel like you were engaged with them, and this wasn’t some generic text floating around. We kind of figured out if a guy just asks a woman to do a specific thing at a specific time, that was enough to make vaginas explode. But in the context of a woman’s phone - where there’s all this other, similar nonsense from other guys - you just come off really boring. With texting, for example, we asked, "What kind of texts do guys send you?" And all the women said guys would say just, “Hey,” “What’s up?” “What are you doing?” “Are you doing anything tonight?” And if you’re a guy saying that, it seems kind of innocuous.
You’re, like, the cream of the crop.īut truly, just doing basic nice things seem to go such a long way. That’s pretty much it - a nice guy that regularly showers. Aziz Ansari: I've got to say, after speaking with a bunch of women for this book, the priorities are a nice guy that’s clean.
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